If you’ve ever been involved in any kind of queer organizing, or really any queer groups, you’ve likely heard a lot of talk about what it means to live openly and authentically. We talk about the danger and the joy that can come from being open about our queerness, especially when we’re one of few. That idea of being open and vulnerable affects not just us, but the people around us and the people that come after us. How much more vulnerable must it feel, then, to be the first in a community? In a city? In a country? That became a reality for Paddy Chew.